Shifting from scraping by to striding out in your fullest, fiercest self.
Life as a modern woman feels like juggling flaming swords while riding a unicycle. We’re expected to excel at work, nurture our families, maintain friendships, and somehow find time to care for ourselves. It’s exhausting. And yet, there’s a part of me—deep down—that refuses to settle for just coping. I’ve faced my share of struggles recently: a demanding workplace, health challenges, and the constant tug of family obligations. Through it all, I’ve learned something vital: thriving isn’t about perfection. It’s about embracing the goddess within, that untamed, authentic core that fuels our strength, creativity, and joy.
For too long, I lived in survival mode. Waking up already overwhelmed, rushing through days without stopping to breathe. It’s a cycle so many of us fall into. Coping becomes a badge of honour: “Look how much I can handle!” But merely handling things isn’t living. Coping is a holding pattern. Thriving is the destination.
To thrive, you need to strip away the expectations and reconnect with your essence. Who are you beneath the roles you play? For me, stepping into this space meant reclaiming my power in small but profound ways. I began by asking myself one question: What would my inner goddess do?
Here’s the thing about goddesses: they don’t apologise for their needs. They don’t shrink themselves to fit someone else’s narrative. They respect their energy and intuition. For me, this meant slowing down, saying no when I needed rest, and setting boundaries without guilt. It’s not easy, especially in a world that celebrates self-sacrifice. But thriving demands it.
The shift from coping to living started with self-compassion. I stopped criticising myself for not being superhuman. Some days, getting through a work meeting or managing family dynamics is enough. And that’s okay. From living, I moved toward thriving by embracing my desires. Thriving isn’t selfish; it’s a ripple effect. When you’re energized and fulfilled, you radiate that energy to everyone around you.
Thriving as a modern woman also means leaning into community. Goddesses don’t exist in isolation; they have tribes. They draw strength from others and give it back. I started reaching out—asking for help when I needed it, surrounding myself with people who uplift me, and walking away from relationships that drained me.
A crucial part of this journey was addressing my health. Our bodies carry our stories, our joys, and our pain. My inner goddess urged me to listen. I began practicing Reiki, meditating, and moving my body in ways that felt good. Every step was a message to myself: I am worth this care.
Living and thriving aren’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about shifting your perspective, prioritising what truly matters, and letting go of the rest. It’s about remembering that you are not just a woman in the world—you are a world unto yourself, full of beauty, power, and infinite potential.
So, here’s my invitation: take a moment to breathe. Close your eyes. Ask yourself, What would my inner goddess do? Then, listen. She’ll guide you from coping to living to thriving. One soulful step at a time.
Truly inspiring 😍
Thank you for sharing. Loving every word.
A great read and a reminder to look out for ourselves. Very thought provoking and I will be meeting up with inner goddess later today.